tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post4621725989980413594..comments2023-04-11T07:41:19.630-07:00Comments on GPS-Grace Power Strength: You're Getting A Divorce: 10 Tips On How To Tell Your ChildrenGPS-gracepowerstrength.blogspot.comhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13986848807336161254noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-28337970318659068072014-11-01T15:30:45.087-07:002014-11-01T15:30:45.087-07:00I'm sorry to hear what you went through was si...I'm sorry to hear what you went through was similar...it's so hard on the kids and it takes so much strength to guide them through it. I thought the same thing.. that when I filed it would all end... I had no idea that was basically the beginning of him retaliating. Ultimately it hurts the kids most. My thoughts prayers are with you. GPS-gracepowerstrength.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13986848807336161254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-75113198695399303662014-11-01T09:07:52.816-07:002014-11-01T09:07:52.816-07:00Sounds close to what happened when I made decision...Sounds close to what happened when I made decision he had to go. It has been five years since it was final and the manipulating he does with our children's minds has not stopped. But it's always about what will hurt or control me. He was dating long before we divorced and I thought setting him free he would not be cruel to me any longer. My children have suffered emotionally and there's much healing that has been prevented. I keep praying for intervention. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-78945483948880790142014-04-29T06:25:25.311-07:002014-04-29T06:25:25.311-07:00I agree... one sign of a good parent in the midst ...I agree... one sign of a good parent in the midst of divorce is relying on their support system... friends, family, therapists, life coaches etc to help them through, not their children. GPS-gracepowerstrength.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13986848807336161254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-36504675875323229282014-04-29T02:54:00.079-07:002014-04-29T02:54:00.079-07:00Get emotional support if you need it, but don'...Get emotional support if you need it, but don't ever, ever, ask your kids to provide it for you. No matter how "mature" they are. Treating a child (even a teenager) as a "best friend", "co-parent" , or "man of the house" is detrimental to the child and is selfish. And it can be used against you in court. <br />Divorce Lawyers Northern Beacheshttp://www.northernbeacheslawyers.com.aunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-51088036833416798402014-03-03T18:56:11.557-08:002014-03-03T18:56:11.557-08:00Thank you, Lynette! It has been a process but they...Thank you, Lynette! It has been a process but they are doing much better! I hope it helps too! GPS-gracepowerstrength.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13986848807336161254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-88586331614870553492014-03-03T10:27:58.554-08:002014-03-03T10:27:58.554-08:00Sorry that your kids had to experience such event ...Sorry that your kids had to experience such event in a flash. Something as delicate as divorce should be explained and dealt with properly with the kids. The blatant manner your husband has acted shows how much disdain he has with the relationship. I hope your kids are alright! Thanks for sharing these steps, it would definitely help a lot of people.<br /><br /><a href="http://appellatelawoffice.com/" rel="nofollow">Lynette Mcguire</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05350108252911382941noreply@blogger.com