tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post3851307691271013455..comments2023-04-11T07:41:19.630-07:00Comments on GPS-Grace Power Strength: 10 Signs You're Dating A Narcissistic SociopathGPS-gracepowerstrength.blogspot.comhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13986848807336161254noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-73538243979198418062015-05-01T12:00:47.962-07:002015-05-01T12:00:47.962-07:00The best course of action once you know what they ...The best course of action once you know what they are is to make an exit plan; file for divorce. We aren't capable of changing them and they aren't willing to change. He tells you the same thing so many others have been told; that you couldn't make it on your own so you won't ever risk leaving. It's a mentality that is aimed to keep someone down, controlled and dependent. As someone who lived a high end lifestyle and now lives much more modestly I can attest that no money can replace peace and knowing you're not sharing space with someone who doesn't love you and is even abusuve. It's hard work getting through a divorce, it's not easy but it's worth it... finding a good experienced therapist who has been in practice 20+ years is a good start; have some individual sessions to discuss what you're dealing with, and then have that support as you take the next step(s). If you have any questions you are welcome to message me on the GPS Facebook page. GPS-gracepowerstrength.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13986848807336161254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-33134984566592901132015-05-01T11:48:50.383-07:002015-05-01T11:48:50.383-07:00I believe I am married to one for 28 years. Took ...I believe I am married to one for 28 years. Took me a while to realize it but now that I do not sure what to do. We both have confessed to each other we love each other but are not in love with each other. He is very good at turning things around and remembering things so different than what I recall. Yes and its usually in his benefit. He hit me a few times until I finally filed a police report and now he knows better. He also has said I would never survive on my own especially since I am use to a certain lifestyle. Does anyone have any comments or questions to help me along the way. I definitely would appreciate it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-81237739331468915542015-03-17T20:25:52.222-07:002015-03-17T20:25:52.222-07:00I'm sorry to hear you were duped by one of the...I'm sorry to hear you were duped by one of these personality disordered people, you are not alone, there are so many who gave their heart... we may beat ourselves up but really we are the brave ones who believed in love not merely what someone could do for us like they suscribe to. It's horrible living with these types, so draining and life sucking. Thank God for new beginnings and with time and hope God will heal and lead us to someone who knows the true definition of what love really is. Bless you GPS-gracepowerstrength.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13986848807336161254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2266837281211217618.post-32712639554072784302015-03-17T20:15:22.411-07:002015-03-17T20:15:22.411-07:00My fits my ex-boyfriend to a tee. I feel so blind...My fits my ex-boyfriend to a tee. I feel so blind and stupid for not being more careful from the outset. It started with the love bombing, but it didn't take long for the mask to slip. Constant lying, boasting about himself (mostly about his sexual prowess), gaslighting, fits of rage whenever I didn't agree with him, on something. Then one day, I was discarded just like that. Hindsight is 20/20 or course. I was just so caught up in the idea that someone loved me. For the first time in my life, I allowed myself to fantasize about a wedding. Now after this, I feel like any warmth or love that I might have had left for a relationship has vanished forever. Everything I’ve read says that sociopaths are incapable of change. The Bible says that nothing is impossible for God. But I also think that for true redemption to take place, people have to see themselves as they really are. A sociopath who constantly sees himself as a hero or a victim isn’t seeing the truth about himself. The question isn’t “can God redeem this person’, but ‘will this person see the truth about their own nature.” In most cases, probably not. <br /> <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com